Looking for the Perfect Solution?

Procrastination is a powerful thing.  If you find yourself faced with a problem and you do nothing, you know that the problem with not go away.  In fact it may continue to grow.

Problems can take on a life of their own.  Have you ever had a problem start to multiple?  What was one problem is now two, three or more.  Everywhere you turn this seemingly little problem is present in some form or another.

As an example, take an employee  that is missing work or in some other way not following the rules of engagement.  You let the actions of the person go because you feel the problem will right itself.  It doesn’t – instead you begin to see other people missing work, deadlines or doing faulty work.  The original employee may still be just missing work but now you have other problems with more employees.

You could ask yourself the question “why” and that may be an option.  But as you are asking yourself that question the problem continues to grow. What is a better way to handle the problem? Have a plan and stick to the plan.

When we do nothing we are also causing undue stress to ourselves. (add that to the growing problems list).  When we make up a plan and then stick to it we reduce the stress and allow not only ourselves but others to see that we are in motion to find a solution.  Your plan does not have to be perfect and many times you will need to make adjustments based on circumstances.   However, you are taking the steps to find the solution and that is powerful.

Leadership Development Strong and Growing

With everything else seemingly going down it is nice to know that something is on the rise.  Leadership development!  Companies are assessing the talent pool and determining where the strong candidates are that will infuse the company with the leadership needed to lead to the next level.

We have seen dramatic changes and the only choice we really have is to embrace the change and move forward.  Things are not going to go back to “the good old days” they never do.  When we are faced with a challenge there is always someone that will tackle the problems and obstacles and move on.  Companies want to make sure that the person that is solving those problems or at least putting strategies in action are the ones that have the values, morals and skills and talent to do effectively. 

For many companies this is looking at employees that were not seen as leaders before, but are now demonstrating their skills and talents in new ways.   This may be because they have been allowed to surface from under their “job description” to become more involved in the solution to the problems the company may be facing.

I would question any leader that rose to the top without the “battle scars” of being in the trenches.  The view from the front line is much different from the view on the mountain top.  Companies now have the opportunity to assess and develop future leaders.  Not only do they have the opportunity, but they are acting upon it and utilizing training, coaches, mentors and other learning’s to make it happen.

I say, Let the Development Begin!

Positive State of Mind – Free Assessement #3

“Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else.” ~Judy Garland

How powerful are those words!  How often do we wish we were like someone else rather than improving on the wonderful person we already are.

Below is the final assessment – Positive State of Mind

  1. I am within my ideal/acceptable weight range (or working toward it everyday)
  2. I have organized by home, office in a manner that promotes peace
  3. I am happy with my clothes and appearance – the way I present myself
  4. I have set appropriate boundaries around my relationship which are draining me
  5. I am actively working on those areas of by life that led to self-improvement
  6. I am happy with my community/support network
  7. I make regular deposits to my emotional bank account
  8. I have completed any outstanding conversations with those people who have upset or hurt me
  9. I tell people (within 24 hours) when they cross my boundaries or upset me (done as a response not a reaction)
  10. I have no significant thoughts withheld about anyone
  11. I do not worry about money everyday, but know that resources will present themselves
  12. I have something to look forward to each day, night or each weekend
  13. I have actively worked on keeping positive thoughts about myself and others
  14. I have a positive attitude about going to work

This is the last in the series of free assessments that can help you to unlock your potential.  If we all take a close look at ourselves and our own self-care we can  become aware of those areas of our life that need  more attention paid to them to have an optimal life.

I know I do a regular review of the questions in the 3 assessments I posted to this blog and then set out to improve those areas that are depleting me of energy that I need to be the best I can.  It is a work in progress, but I find the journey invigorating and that is not to say challenging at times!

From Stress to Harmony (Free Assessment Part 2)

Below are 12 simple questions to answer with regards to how you may be adding stress to your life where harmony could exist.  Of course there are many more questions you may want to ask of yourself since you are the one that knows you best.  What causes you stress? How is that stress passed on to those around you, at home, work, social?

How often do you listen to what your body is telling you?  Do you have a knot in your shoulders or neck?  Are you grinding your teeth in your sleep, do you feel like the hamster on the wheel, always being busy but never finishing what you need to do?

All these are indicators that you may want to stop, breath and reflect.  There is a better way!

  1. I arrive effortlessly and on time for every appointment
  2. I create extra time in the day for unexpected things that come up
  3. I say “no” as often as I need to without regret
  4. I monitor what I take on to make sure it is not too much
  5. There is nothing I am dong that does not contribute to a balance life
  6. I eat meals in an environment that promotes peace and calm (not in front of the t.v. or while driving or talking of the phone, etc.)
  7. I have resolved any outstanding issues that have bothered me
  8. I regularly take time out to spend with my thoughts and to reflect on my well being
  9. I practice relaxation in the form of meditation, yoga, deep breathing, stretching, reflection being mindful, etc.
  10. I take enough time off/vacation to rejuvenate
  11. I get a massage at least once a month if not more.
  12. I do not exceed the speed limit or take other chances with my well-being

Next up….Do you have a Positive State or Mind?